tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-84409021022543080.post9105657487935534260..comments2024-02-27T10:34:32.981+02:00Comments on MVK zone: Inspirational - Motivational - Educational: Why I Think Some Marriages Fail Despite All Good Efforts To make Them Work - Part 7Montoedi Kotuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06123636511732876129noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-84409021022543080.post-24981013388420598842010-06-02T17:10:06.817+02:002010-06-02T17:10:06.817+02:00My husband & i have been married for 4 years.I...My husband & i have been married for 4 years.I have eaten food cooked by him 2 or 3 times in 4 years.My husband never cooks & u will never find him in the kitchen preparing food for HIMSELF.Sometimes when i cum back from work i will feel so tired and wish to find cooked food because he would be home,NEVER.Does he prefer not to cook?Montoedi Kotuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06123636511732876129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-84409021022543080.post-35980245384533945912010-06-01T21:09:56.891+02:002010-06-01T21:09:56.891+02:00I hope this is not the only session on preferences...I hope this is not the only session on preferences. The truth is that we are two people with different upbringings, backgrounds, experiences, etc. If we can dwell and put our focus on preferences we may end up killing each other. My wife and I are two different people. I like socializing and being with friends and my wife is the opposite. Since we got married my life has been what others will consider boring as my daily schedule is go to work and come back home. I try not to crowd her about church issues and God. I've never used God's Word when discussing things with her. Some will say this is wrong as God is the centre of our lives. What I mean is that when we talk about things I don't use my understanding of the bible and try to enforce it to her. Coming back to friends, I had to loose a number of best friends in order to be with my wife. My wife doesn’t like cooking and I do a lot of cooking. Sometimes she will be home and I come back from work with an expectation that she would have prepared a meal and to my surprise she will ask me as I come home “what’s for supper today?” Traditionalist will say “ke nyetse and this is unacceptable” but the truth is this is possible and the way we chose to do thingsMontoedi Kotuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06123636511732876129noreply@blogger.com